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Divorced a malignant narcissist after decades of gaslighting, financial abuse, control, etc. Had to leave my home in secret with my child and pets just to survive. It was so worth it to gain my freedom and discover my peace of mind❤

Who is that person with you.. Jonathan? He seems moderately rude to you. And he got very offended when you didn't call the show "our show" collectively.. last time I checked, your show was called Mayim Bialik Breakdown. 😑😬

I think that Josh Cohen person has some issues. He's very rude to you. Your channel is called mayim bialik breakdown... Its YOUR channel... Is that your husband or something?

I have to agree with the self awareness piece where Dr. Ramani says that recovery from the destructive behavior of narcissism is like addiction recovery, in that its every day, every moment, for the rest of your life. As someone diagnosed with BPD and 4 comorbidities plus needing to be evaluated for ADHD/ASD, I can tell you tat if I don't feel like I'm occasionally telling on myself, I'm not being real enough. I have narcissistic tendencies for sure. I've always known I wasn't like "normal" people. Sometimes my ADHD brain thinks really fast through a situation and I'm so frustrated waiting for other people to catch up. I can be an arrogant asshole about it. Then someone more efficient and educated than I am gets frustrated with me, and I have a realization, I stop being such an asshole about that thing, and then the empathy wears off days or weeks later and I do it all over again. It takes lots of rounds of this for me to start changing behavior. Interestingly, I've noticed that when my !other shows a glimmer of empathy towards me, I'm capable of accessing that type of empathy for others more. What is this phenomena and could it be a therapy modality for healing intergenerationally?

Yeah, this new TikTok trend with I’m looking for a guy in finance 65 blue eyes. I just wanna stitch it every time and be like I’m looking for a guy with the emotional intelligence, not narcissistic…. Sweet mind…. I’ll also take kind eyes.

Mayim, just a thought on the sponsor, AirBnB, which seems like a win-win, but really isn't: people should check to see if the place they're visiting has a limit on the number of AirBnBs. Cities that don't limit them (such as the one on the East Coast where I live) see limited housing inventory, skyrocketing rents and purchase prices, which contribute to homelessness. Cities that limit the number of short-term rentals in residential areas are doing what they can to keep year-round residents in their homes and their neighborhoods liveable. And as always, make sure that your AirBnB is registered with the city where you're staying.

“1 in 6 People Are Narcissists!” this is more correct from my experience.

As someone who has encountered NPD individuals, the withdrawing attention, affection as a means to bewilder and confuse their supply, can inflict emotional injury and trauma. Establishing firm boundaries and avoiding the triangulation of the NPD individual to keep yourself safe. Outstanding podcast!

Never clicked so fast. Great collab. Putting it out in the universe that a collab with healthygamergg's Dr. K would be another *must* watch. Or another favorite is childhood trauma specialist Patrick teehan. 34:00 thank you mayim for asking this... absolutely loved wil's collab... have wondered this myself. parents are horribly triggering, and are unable to see what is wrong. The only way you can have any relationship with them is fully on their terms. Its heartbreaking.

Wow! Eye opening! I find it interesting how I was able to get out of narcissistic relationships without knowing that's what I was doing! I didn't know that I was dealing with a narcissist, but there were obvious behaviors that I wasn't willing to live with. I even left one with two toddlers and only $69 in my pocket. Granted, $69 went a lot farther 50 years ago, but it still wasn't much. And I didn't have a driver's license or high school diploma. Needless to say, I got both and more along the way. My question is how do people inately get out of such situations without realizing that's what they're doing? Mine can't be the only story like that.

I discovered her years ago and her knowledge changed everything for me in understanding my Step Children’s mother. Understanding that she wasn’t just randomly difficult and high conflict, but that she had a predictable personality style was so clarifying. I slowly was able to stop taking every negative reaction personally and with a lot of self work and the help of a 12 step program I now sponsor and guide women through and out of narcissistic relationships. Her work has helped countless lives. ❤

I’m not finished listening to this, but goodness, I love this Dr.! She’s amazing & so relatable.

I wonder how many covert narcissists end up on here feeling validated as a "victim", not realizing that in all likelihood they're the perpetrator and the " narcissist " is the victim. I've seen a lot of narcissistic people call themselves an empath just because they can feel emotion. Uh, that's not it but thanks for playing...

TBBT is that one show you can rewatch like a million times and not get bored!

Better help is a scam. Hope you look into it.

They will deprive you of everything , but expect you to perform like a trained seal , your problems are an inconvenience

If your parent was one, are you doomed to follow suit?

Love this so interesting I'm sureni know this lady from Cynthia Sue Larson reality shifters

Empaths need narcissists to wake up. There is a spiritual component to this that Dr. Ramami doesn't understand.

Finally! @MayimBialik, your mother mentioned her father I think (or grandfather?) who loved to hurt people. Take a look at this issue, he might have been a narc.

What is the ratio in Colombia University ? 1:2 ?

Not me profiling myself, thinking that's me! Omg I knew I was a narcissist 😂

Some people are Just more sensitive....i don't know if it can be qualified by science....its very hard and usually we choose professions to heal/help etc ...

Dr Ramani Durvasula has made the biggest difference in my life- her youtube videos and 2 of her books helped me to heal and get out from under the narcissists in my life. I'm now able to spot these red flags in new, budding relationships and friendships in my life. "Should I Stay or Should I Go?" And "Don't You Know Who I Am?" Those are the 2 books that impacted my life for the better 💪

It is so cool that you have Dr. Ramini Durvasula in this episode. I have seen her in many RUclips videos describing and explaining narcissism and people who are narcissist. We have all delt with narcissistic people at one time or another. My Tuesdays are so awesome with this podcast. Much love to you beautiful Mayim! ❤

After reading the title of this vlog I finally understand my thoughts about " do I life in an Narcisstic world?, are there kind 'normal' people who can live a friendly live.

Purple 💜💜💜💜

This woman rides a fine line between education and sensationalism. She sometimes enables very harmful stereotypes and stigmas. And she's all over the place.

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The Awesomeness Continues! 👊😎✊Another Awesome Episode Like Usual 👍😎👌🍁

I’m stuck with a huge narcissist for 4 years. I feel like I’m going to lose my mind. We have a baby it’s hard to leave. I have PTSD from this. Thank God for therapy and meds.

my issue is the defund the police culture and then the let me be gangster culture that fills in the gap

I love how she went from toxic femme to like a more centered person

Thank you for this discussion 💜 my husband died four months ago and this gives me tools with my 2 children 💜

Its weird tho to be calling things children use to cope an addiction cause its helping them cope right? And they are too young to properly understand what they are doing so i rly dont think it can be called that. There are certainly unhealthy coping mechanisms! I think especially if you tell your child like your addicted to sucking your thumb like thats just mean and not true so idk maybe fine as a point with parents but not to say to your children

Makes u more likely to have another panic attack cause youre so worried abt the last one u had youre like already half way there lol so fun

Salam from Morocco ❤

hmmm sounds like a sad way to live there is no selfishness in love and no love in selfishness Seek Heaven first God Bless

Weed is absolutely addictive

Hey I'm in that situation " it's so true when you're in your prime" you become wiser and humble " stay true blessed with Faith 👊🏼💪🏼🙏🏻

Very well said

This concept explains many social phenomena.

Hey Where’s the visual? I miss seeing you guys!

So interesting- love hearing about mediumship and healing- great show!! ❤️🙏🩵✌️☮️🌎

Yes!

Stop blaming othes....grow up...no one has had a perfect childhood...grow up

Excellent interview.

Love u guys, such an important topic for a lot of us. Thank you.

Soo glad you started your own podcast 🙌

Umm Blossom, thats how I first knew you. I have so much value I seek to add to your show. let me know if your interested in a person who carries their Vulnerable heart in one hand, and a Massive Battle Axe in the other.